Confusing title hey? Its a brief synopsis of my day yesterday. I had found out on Monday morning that the Wailin' Jennys were playing in Edmonton...on Tuesday night! No notice whatsoever, but somehow, I actually managed to arrange the childcare, and it all came together. Rob has guitar lessons on Tuesday nights, so I had to find someone to watch the kids so I could leave during that time. The three people that I know that remotely enjoy the Jennys (one of them being my husband) were all busy. Tuesday nights are bad nights for such things apparently.
So Tuesday morning rolled around and although I did have the childcare arranged, I had no one to go with. I was still toying with the idea of going. After numerous people told me how I should definitely go solo,* I finally just did it, and went ahead and bought the ticket!
(*Although I do have to point out that most of the people who told me to go, have personally never attended a concert alone - they just thought it would be a good idea for me to do it!).
So I did this very last minute on Tuesday morning. I was printing off my ticket confirmation a few minutes before we had to leave for preschool. I had already dressed for a morning of walking with Gabe while Abbi was in preschool. So I was wearing the pants that my husband told me I should never leave the house in (I'm so thankful for an honest husband. Although perhaps a little too honest after that whole antiperspirant saga). Of course I would have worn them in front of the preschool crowd, but that's different! So out the door we zoomed, me in the bad pants, with the ticket confirmation in hand.
On my way to preschool I realized that I should go to pick up the tickets during this 2 hour time slot allotted to me. Now all you Edmontonians can tell me how there is a Ticketmaster outlet across the street from my house, but the "closest" one I could find after a quick look on their website was at the U of A Student's Union building. So after dropping Abbi off, I was on a mission. No address, just a general idea of where the monstrous university is!
After 30 minutes of searching, I finally found it. I was being re-directed by well-intentioned students who seemed to be a bit confused themselves. I parked in a $2 per 30 minute parkade (this is precisely how the University makes its money. Highway robbery!). I got out of the parkade, and it was at this point that I realized just how hideous my pants were. Don't get me wrong. They aren't all entirely bad, but these were my, "I've just had a baby (Gabe), just let me be comfortable" pants with a ingenious drawstring waist. They used to be black, and now they're, well, brown. I'm sure there are a few grease stains. They've definitely shrunk up after a few too many tumbles in the dryer. I was most definitely not wearing the appropriate underwear (eg. bad panty lines). It was just all bad.
So I felt not only like an outcast walking through the hip and trendy Student's Union Building because of my stroller...but also because of my terrible pants.
"That poor single mother, can't even afford decent pants."
So fast forward to that evening. I'm gussied up (no bad pants in sight!). The kids are ready to go to the babysitters. The house is immaculate (minus the kitchen, there is only so much a woman can do!). Off we go. I get to the church 30 minutes after the doors have opened. I find parking nearby in the most excellent underground lot under Telus Plaza. Seriously, that curvy driveway down into the parkade may have been the most fun I'd had all day! And for $3? I think I'll have to go do it again just for kicks!
During the Breakforth conference in January, I went and saw Robin Mark in this very same church, so I knew what to expect when I went inside. I found a seat off to the side, 2 rows from the front. An excellent seat considering most of the people had already been there for 30 minutes before. Much easier to find a seat for one person.
The view from my first seat. Not bad. But that speaker was bound to be trouble.
*Note the fantastic shoes. I was especially taken with the red ones.
Left to Right: Niki Mehta, Ruth Moody, & Heather Masse
A few of the instruments...
And finally, the best part? It turns out CBC Radio 2 recorded the performance and will be sharing it with the rest of the world in the coming months (likely in the fall when the Jennys have a new CD coming out). So I'm thrilled that I can somewhat share my experience with Rob (who I know would have really enjoyed the show), and whomever else loves these gals!
you ARE one of the Jenny's! you've got the right look and everything. (someone like me would stand out in the group a little much.) Just frame the photo and put it above Rob's instruments and say it's from your time w/ the band. I'd believe you!
ReplyDeleteThat's so awesome that you went and had a good time. sorry i couldn't go with...
I'm a firm believer in doing the alone thing if it's a choice b/n alone or not at all. of course things are better w/ others, but solo experiences have a specialness all their own.
So so so glad you went. I too am sad I couldn't go with.
ReplyDeleteI too am all for the experience of doing things alone. It teaches me how to be ok with myself and in my own skin. Sometimes I need those reminders.
I love the pic of you with them, you fit right in...and I fully enjoy the idea of you playing spoons with them! I can see it already!
I remember in church, the clapping off-beat together and laughing. Perhaps spoons would be better with practise. *wink*
ReplyDeleteI went to a museum alone when I was travelling New Zealand solo, and the museum definitely was not fun alone, but I've done jazz shows before alone and I L-oved it! Glad you tried it! Hurrah for bravery!